Welcome to !lgbt@burggit.moe! The purpose of this community is to be a friendly hub for queer topics of any kind: memes, discussion, advice, etc.

This post is for introductions, if you would like to do so. I do not recommend sharing IRL names, but instead how you are related to the community. I am a trans girl, I came out several years ago IRL, and I am also bi. 2/4 on the shortened acronym: adjacent even!

Please remember to consult the sidebar before posting. Thank you to @PinkBow@burggit.moe for creating the community icon. I’ll take the opportunity to plug Burggit’s matrix space, where we discussed the making of the icon.

  • @AWildLoliAppeared
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    1011 months ago

    Hi, I was there for the discussion of this I think.

    Call me whatever abbreviation of my username you like, and… She/her pronouns.

    I’m going to be really honest here: that’s literally the first time I’ve ever asked to use she/her pronouns and I think I’m going to cry.

    I’ve wondered if I was trans for years or if I just had a fetish about it and… I’m not sure what to do with how I’m feeling right now. I want to be a girl. I want to be seen as a girl. I’m a little embarrassed by that but I kinda want that embarrassment too? It feels like it’s mine in a way I can’t put into words.

    So… Yeah. I think I just fully realized I’m a trans girl and I really don’t know what to do with that.

    I need a hug.

    • @MousepadOPM
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      811 months ago

      I’m glad you were vocal about your interest in such a community! It’s a tough journey and you should try to get involved in as many communities like this as possible: support is very important. You will feel so much more free and “like yourself” <3

      Good luck!! We’re all here are rooting for you.

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      9 months ago

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    • Phossu
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      410 months ago

      This is unironically a beautiful moment. I’m glad that you were able to realize this about yourself.

      In my experience these places, where taboo sexual interests are shared, are also places where we can speak in complete freedom and be more honest than we ever would be elsewhere. You can learn a lot about yourself. I have learned a lot about myself in similar corners of the internet.

      Hope you’re doing well!!

      • @AWildLoliAppeared
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        410 months ago

        I mostly am. And… yeah I feel a lot freer to talk here. Certainly not in a position to be open about this side of me at all IRL. I really appreciate all the support.

        • @MousepadOPM
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          10 months ago

          If you would like a more casual place for discussion, I can look into either making a matrix space or asking burger to make a subspace for this community, perhaps either being invite only if that would be most comfortable. Let me know!

          For trans people in particular, there are a lot of questions that you might prefer to be more private is why I ask. Even just something as simple as clothing recs can be sketch for anonymity purposes.